When It Comes To Your Brain, What Gives?
If someone gave you a check and two options — keep the money for yourself or spend it on someone else — what would you do?
A study published in ScienceDirect in 2016 asked just that. What it found suggests that money actually may buy happiness — when it’s spent on other people.
Some experts say that humans are hard-wired to give, even when it’s logically and economically unwise. So, when it comes to gifting, is it really the thought that counts?
Wrapping Your Mind Around Giving
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It’s Not How Much We Give, Just How We Give It
What Kind of Giver Are You
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Survival of the Givers
Popular theorists like E.O. Wilson believed that altruism was programmed into species to help them survive. Though Wilson later went back on his theory, he came to the conclusion that altruism "evolved for the sake of the community."
The Evolution of Giving
Confucian China: Giving as Relationship-Building
Confucian principles influenced how Chinese gave in the community. Gifting not only established relationships, it bound people together and helped create social harmony. The entire community contributed to the livelihood of the individual, who in return maintained a sense of obligation and loyalty to the group.
With rigidly defined social roles, gift-giving was crucial in forming and maintaining social hierarchy.
Ancient Egypt: Giving in Preparation for the Afterlife
For ancient Egyptians, giving had little to do with material gifts amongst one another — but with symbolic gifts for the gods. To ensure immortality after death, they performed elaborate rituals to prepare the dead for their journey to the afterworld.
Mummification allowed one’s soul to return to the body after death. People also left food, drink, written funerary texts, and other household items — even mummified pets — outside tombs to aid the deceased in their journey to immortality.
Ancient Rome: Giving as Civic Responsibility Introducing Christianity: The Evolution of Philanthropy
Though philanthropy has Greek roots, ancient Romans also believed giving was a civic responsibility. In other words, giving was an obligation of noble status, rather than out of human necessity or generosity. Giving meant nobles received communal recognition and public influence in return.
When Christianity rose to power in the Greco-Roman empire, its leaders preached all-encompassing love. This influenced how they viewed philanthropy, which evolved from being the elite’s obligation to the common man’s purpose.
Ancient Greece: Giving for Survival and Hospitality
In Homer’s The Odyssey, Odysseus survived his long journey home because of the kindness of strangers. Traveling was long, strenuous, and dangerous. And because of slower transportation methods, travelers spent longer time away from home, which meant they had to rely on strangers for shelter, food, and protection. Depending on the generosity and gifts of others was the only means of survival.
Middle Ages: Giving to Form Alliances
Gift giving was inherently political, economical, and spiritual in medieval life. Illuminated manuscripts depicted the culture around giving, and were gifted to establish and reinforce political and social relationships among the elite. Scenes portray daily medieval life, ranging from wealthy individuals donating to charity or presenting manuscripts to royal patrons. Manuscripts were often given to churches or monasteries and within families.
Native Americans: Giving For Sharing and Survival
Historically, Native people found solace and strength in giving, using it as a means for sharing, survival, and relationship-building. They believed in communal wealth distribution and finding prosperity in spiritual and natural forces.
Tribal leaders are still crucial in forming philanthropy in Native communities. The Potlatch ritual celebrates generosity by giving away wealth among other tribal members in the community.
Present Day: Giving Around the Globe
Giving is no longer bound by physical and cultural borders. Today, people are able to pledge money to support or encourage people they want to help - even if they are across the globe.
The internet brought on a wave of modern technology that has allowed giving to go truly global. With crowdfunding apps like Kickstarter and GoFundMe, we can share stories, tragedies, goals, and dreams with the click of a button. As a global community, we’ve long found support through family and friends, but we now find power in the solidarity of strangers, too.
When it comes to gifting, it truly is the thought that counts. Whether you’re giving the gift of tradition, time, adventure, or experience, it’s the connection between the giver and receiver that’s the real magic of being human.
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